I teach the key success of consistency and discipline the wrong place from child. It will keep small bad behavior and bad behavior after it becomes big bad behavior and bad behavior later. You need to stand firmly and mean it when you say, "turn off the TV now" or "you hand on your dinner" consistency teaches your child to do bad things or not There are defined results for appropriate or unacceptable behavior or behavior. Inconsistency if Disciplining makes direct responsibility to your child's misbehavior and does not tell them how to take responsibility for the act.
It is also that each partner is consistent with the training. If one parent is too strict and the other is too generous, the child will use it as a key, trying to make the situation profitable. Parents must promise to each other that they are consistent in agreeing to disciplinary action in advance, executing the results, and obeying it. This is especially difficult when parents of a child divorce or divorce. You may not be together anymore, but it is imperative that you become a parent in a common position. If discipline is required, publicly and honestly discussing these parameters with your ex-spouse and your child in advance, the consequences of such cheating will be inconsistent of parents' opinions beforehand from the child's ears It should be discussed.
Consistency is to be strong and standing even if it is very difficult or tiring to do so. It can sometimes be difficult to come back after a hard day at work to find a hard-raising child-rearing in front of you only. Your child consistently tests the boundary and pushes the envelope with you to see if there are plays of those results. It is not a company, I will behave under the responsibility of saying so hard.
Children who connect the system Overdo
We all want to connect and engage with our children. Children of the parents concerned generally have a higher level of self-esteem, more confident and more confident. They are excellent at school and are doing fine with extracurricular activities and hobbies.
Does it involve more to be there? When you recognize the line of things you can be too involved and are getting involved with your school-aged children's activities and scholars
Remember, you are involved in your child's life. It is important that you do not intrude too much into it. Children need their space and privacy and need to be able to develop their own skills, talents and abilities. In our enthusiasm that helps our children succeed, they walk and feel, so they are tempted to start doing things for them yet they remember, but remember, if you do not learn Well, this is an opportunity to learn by yourself.
Encourage, support your child, and offer praise at well done work. But also do not forget to backstep and allow your child to learn from their mistakes and develop their own way of doing things. We all know from our own life experience that there is always more than one way to do something. Who knows, it can present a wonderful opportunity to learn from your child as well.
Also, when it comes to their social life, please do not become too arrogant or nostalgic. They need to be available for them They need to encourage them to talk and share their troubles with you so that they can help them But they do not want to talk about it Say, they just need some time to grasp things for themselves This is an important part of growing, letting the child grasp his own way by things That is an important part of the process.
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