Being a parent is almost certainly one of the most important patience tests. They say that patience is virtue, it is true - but this comment thinks that patience is a quality that has only a few selected items In fact, patience is some parents Even if it did not do well in this chapter first, it will be learned over time. But with a little effort, any parents are patient and can learn to entertain themselves in some situations not bothering him long ago.
First of all, you need to learn to have patience on yourself. Do not accuse all things, do not show tolerance without falling into a trap of self content. Fortunately, for children, adults are mature people, and in most cases I know to keep controlling nerves. Do not raise your voice and do not impose your will with a calm, firm tune, problem problem.
Generally, try not to think about tomorrow, can not be overwhelmed by problems of my point of view. Because if you do not, you are worried about more and you are more upset.
Lower pressure levels will totally give more patience on your side. Also, trying to explain the child quietly, you can see what you are expecting him and the way he will meet your expectations. Suppress blaming him. If we already have the theme of expectation, it is essential to not ask him more than he can give you, based on his age
Sometimes children seem to be intentionally trying to test the limits of parents' patience. If you fall, this is what your little one is doing. Maybe he is trying to cover some frustration, maybe he was unfair or maybe he ignored and he tried to get your attention
Perhaps it is best to see problems from his point of view for change: unless he learns that he is himself a patient person he probably will do it anyway
To make your child a person who can be a child:
- Played games - Wait is included until this is the case.
- Leave to follow up for the next night, read him a thick book or a long story. Do not give to his petition to find an end in the same evening.
- Plant trees to teach him to take care of the flowers - he will learn to persevere until seeing the results of his work.
- If he wants a bicycle, he gives money, I will tell him to save them for a brief moment, for that bicycle.Of course you will give him a present, Your child learns to have the value of money as well as perseverance.
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