Correctly praising children is important for the development of positive behavior. It is a wonderful way to encourage constructive future action. When giving praise it gives your child a feeling of positive feedback that enhances confidence, self esteem and ability sense. When you admire your child, you point out the way they acted, the action they took, or just who they are. When your child sees well, tell him so. The child is useless, I know him. You also need to admire your child's efforts to do it well, even if it does not come out very good at the end. You should admire something about your child everyday.
Always keep an eye out for action and worthy action, but do not do it on top of it. Be sincere and honest with your praise. Waiting is a child of behavior and praise noticed before. And if you see such actions and behaviors, please praise soon. While admiring him and speaking to him, he said, positively acts, acts or characteristics that are admired with gestures such as warm smile, hug embrace, neck, or caressing his face
Be precise and exactly what the action, action or praise point will find characteristic in the state. The most important connection evaluation, criticism and comment. Your child knows that they were right and you can reward them for it before you know what they did
So praise your child and bless your child and build up a strong sense of self with your good child who is growing by praising their aggressive behavior, behavior, and traits every day and It grows closer than the result.
Positive discipline without hurting your child
It seems that children are always testing our patience, finding ways to "push our buttons" all the time. It's easy to hurt, frustrating, sad, angry, irritated, confused and hurt. It will command and we will face it when we are actually tested, when we come to doling from training, when we come to doling out of training - none of our physical or words I do not want to hurt our children with abuse by. We want to teach the child that such a thing is wrong.
When training our children, our aim is to teach them to be responsible, cooperative, kind and respectful. The best way to teach this is always consistent, continue with the same punishment for the same miscarriage, and then frankly and honestly with your child and training
Keep in mind that at all times when implementing set disciplinary actions, age, maturity level, and your child's temperament should always be considered. Regarding disciplinary action, we must discuss and understand in advance. And, importantly, remember that it is not the kid you disliked; it is his / her chosen actions, acts or disabilities.
If you need, give yourself a short "time" before answering appropriate training. Sometimes we need short to cool down the periods before dealing with our child's wrongs to avoid wrongs of our own. Cry and collision should never be selected.
Keep an open mind as a parent and be willing to learn from your children. It is important that we all make mistakes and find that every form without training is working with every child. Children are as unique as adults, and it is necessary to adjust the form of training according to the individual needs of both parents and children. But with a little foresight, patience, firmness, love and understanding, discipline can have a positive result for all involvement.
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