The elderly relationship has something very self-absorbed about the carer. Thereby we focus on the elderly and his needs or carers and elderly people on the subject of almost all the decisions and cares you make
Given what your elderly parents talked all day, it is usually about his or her physical or emotional needs. The way the caregiver relationship works naturally encourages the notion that the elderly world rotates around the elderly's own needs and problems.
However, raising a child shows that it is very unhealthy when people are completely focused on themselves. It will be how you can become psychotic and think they should all start and end their problems and see the world
So the bold step a carer can do is to suggest that you and your elderly parents get out of the apartment and do something worthwhile to others. By participating in a volunteer, or at least going out and making a difference together, you get self esteem from making others' lives better, it comes out to them fresh air, someone else or what Divide constant thoughts about themselves by thinking about something else for a while
So it is a museum where you can not stand stubbornly if you try to resist if you don't take it out. The knee jerk reaction that your elderly parent may have when you bring up a volunteer together, "It relates to my needs," by explaining the value to him or her ca says that your elderly parents said that it was about other people and that the life of the service is a healthy life
Strive to have good energy that must find something ambitious. Your senior mom and dad can be invalid and still in trouble. Some simple things you can do first are ...
Go to the park and slowly pick up the trash for a walk, so you can clean the park.
Visiting someone else in the retirement community he or she knows is lonely and going to enjoy falling.
Help envelopes and make calls to your church or charity. This is something you can do from a wheelchair in the case of your elderly parent's situation.
Read underprivileged children at the local library.
Become a brother or sister and take young people to ball games and zoos frequently.
It is a volunteer opportunity with physical strength that can be adapted to the coordination mechanism of most urban volunteers. If your elderly parents are involved in doing something for others, don't be surprised if their enthusiasm takes off like a surge.
Makes a big difference to other people that brings a difference in the feeling of And, on the way home to your parents talk about what you're doing and what you're doing, you hit this idea and they talk about the next thing you're going to go with When you can't stop, you and your parent will never have the same service project and his or her life again. That is a good thing.
Listen to your parents even now
If you ever go over your elderly parents' apartment or house to get you done doing some serious "care giving" helping you do housework and you will definitely be your arm apartment On the list to do to help clean and healthy life by getting place in the form of your parents
You, part of your job as a carer, take care of your household chores, something that your aged parents can't do anymore, and general attention to fatigue and details, so your parents do you What is worse for you when you want to sit down and talk for all the work is very much for your parents
It's good to think about your role as a carer, because you are really just called a maid, a driver and not cooked. Anyone Can Do The reason you are perfect for the care you give a role is that you are close to your elderly parent's heart and you know what she thinks that day
So don't underestimate the value of being a companion to your parents during your visit. The emotional and family support you offer to your parents is central to his self respect and feeling of who he is in the world. He keeps dozens of small anecdotes and stories to share with you when you come. So, it is important that you be a good listener, in order to allow him to "get out of his system".
Good listeners just let other people talk and don't say "uh huh" every so often. If you just tolerate your parents as she shares little things with you, it becomes obvious and worse if you don't talk to her at all. The best way to fit your fellowship relationship time around work hours, just open each visit with some time together to talk
Perhaps it's easy to use, as it can make it a habit for you and your parents to sit and talk for half an hour just over coffee, snacks and tea each time you come Needless to say, which skin is kind to you. When something is funny, you can laugh, you can ask questions and explore concepts and situations being discussed in some depth, so focus and note
Then, at the right time, you can say, "Mom, I would like to organize those dishes. Will I be able to keep all the tables?" Open communication to keep working. Make your skin "friendly to follow" so that you can continue and tell the whole time of chattering.
Do not censor the topic or claim that it is only important that you speak. You should know from talking to your child that you must be ready to talk about trivial things in their lives. So if you are patient and know that you have a good listening ear if you are open with your aging mom and dad, it will be an important thing that will continue in life and that is when your listening skills actually pay .
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