The job of being a carer is involved if giving such help to your aging parents to help cook and fill out the Medicare documents, if it is a fact or should be done Even if there were a lot of problems with the carer, it's not such a problem that burns out.
But the real drains of yours and of the elderly you take care of come in emotional tolls that the care offer offer brings with it. Because the "understanding of the hypothesis" of the relationship that gives care is based on giving a very significant benefit extension, guilt is an all-out time spent with your aging parent
It is very easy for the elderly to feel guilty to ask you for the work you do to take care of him. In most cases, it is a strange situation because they have never asked. Looking at beginning to unravel your parent's life and knowing that someone was organizing his retirement life may have strengthened you. Still, the elderly are feeling a lot of guilt, because you are giving him a huge amount of time, and it will probably form your family away from time
It does not help that the time of transition from independence to helped care is a huge loss of self respect for your aging parent. There is a lot of big change that takes place in a rapid order for our parents, and they happen in areas of life that have not changed for decades. If your mother or dad lost home to live in a saved living facility, they couldn't drive and everything was irrationally felt in them appearing sins appeared for them. It seems that it is rather old, so we are working for this purpose.
But guilt is also a problem for you, a caregiver. There is also the possibility of doing something like that. I will be your parents. An elderly person working hard to take care of you, "I hope you had to go home," cried, or cried in my life
So what can we do about all of this guilt? Feeling guilty does not make a better relationship, it does not improve the quality of life for the caregiver or for the seniors being cared for. Because there is a whirlwind shutdown, I will not make any inconvenience.
Perhaps the most aggressive sins faced. Sit with your aging mom or dad and get those guilty feelings of being open. It's not their fault that they got older It's worthwhile to feel that they should not be parents. After all, they took care of you for decades when you were just a child and a young adult.
Bu takes teeth from guilt and you have a real chance of getting it from your relationship. By learning not to be guilty to each other, you will be a fighter, not a team that gives care. And these are positive steps towards healthy seniors and carer relationships.
Go to a better place
There are some serious events in the life of the elderly. And a few can be compared by tremendous changes in lifestyle when your aging parents move from home and to a assisted living facility. It is a very emotional decision. If your mother and dad have been in the same house for decades, there is a habit that the place becomes very deep. So moving to an apartment or nursing home can be difficult to persuade an elderly parent.
If you got mom or dad on board to make that big move, the next major step is to find the facility that is just the right thing. There are many factors that go into this choice. There should be a fairly detailed checklist for what you are looking for when setting out to find the next home for your parents. It is a check list of facilities that can be done and embarrassment. This will be your parent's next home and a place to spend a lot of time during your visit. So make sure that you go to a really better place when your mom or dad moves from home to this facility.
Facility design. This criterion is quite different from getting a checklist. Support facilities for the elderly are different from the execution of the mill complex. And, whether the facility is designed with both physical plants and how the facility operates, is a good place for your parents to live, so there are some items and so a checklist ...
安全 safety
§ food service.
Urgent preparation of の.
能力 Ability to respond.
ル ッ ク Look and feel.
society. Moving on-mouse to a thumbnail image may be "loneliness to fight more human touch for other parents to do with its parents." Regular socialization as this facility speeds up a lot So, interview some of the residents, they are friendly, and if there is a person there, your mom or dad is going to be a friend and you enjoy it too Arrange for your parents to spend a day or weekend at the facility to get a feel for what will be
Where a proximity facility is physically located, the location of supportive care is eligible to create a short list. You, the caregiver, need to get a look of priority, something close to where you live. Instead, it is possible to search around cities, places and addresses, so in a skin-friendly hotel, the approach of nearby care is a huge leap.
Even before starting to talk about this great step with your parents, think about it all the time, discuss with them with family and your parents, and feel for what facilities are available in your area You might have done preliminary walk throughs to get a.
It is vital to take your parents with you on those visits when you start a formal survey for your parents' next place to live. After all, the criteria are less important if your mom or dad likes the facility. And as they look at the facility and interview the staff and management of different places around the town, your parents will begin to become enthusiastic, following this move and they will be in their minds In order to help your parent go to a better place, you are successful in this move once you cross that threshold
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