If your parents do not go away young in life, you have one axiom that you are trying to see them age. After mom and dad work hard to raise you slowly, they become great roles for them to become grandma and grandpa
But the consequence of that axiom is that if mom and dad get older, at some point you will start helping with the daily events of life. And, as their needs grow, their occasional assistance escalates until you become a serious carer for the elderly.
For many, when you suddenly become a carer, that's it. It happens frequently after the death of the parent, and the dead parent suddenly becomes poor due to the loss it is experiencing. For a couple who have been together for decades, that loss is equivalent to a loss of limbs and much more catastrophic, so you are suddenly against your aged parents
It may be strange to look like this, but the more you can take care of, the more you get used to your elderly parents and parents, And you step in, your aging If you can make some changes to the parent's environment, it will be time for them to be very dependent on you
If your parents and parents still live in your own home, there are things you can do to make their living space more accessible and secure ...
The style is all simple but luxurious. Stairs can be dangerous for the elderly. So, in your plan to adapt their living space early, go to the first floor bedroom, kitchen, pantry, laundry room and living room
Take some of the work from your daily chores. We will deliver to the most local grocery stores so we can be elderly for food so we can approach the aging of our arrangements. You can come and clean the house, do simple repairs and house chores, and find a service that works in time for the care of your home ownership business for your parents
You and your parents know that all their prescriptions are met and that your parents understand their medications, when and how to take them
Reorganize the kitchen so that what your parents use every day is on the eye-high shelf and can easily be obtained after washing. Getting toaster ovens, microwaves and other important home appliances is easy, if your parent has these units, you will be assisted in the living center
Go through the house and make it easy for your parents to use. You can check their walking and stick along the hall then your mom or dad may need additional support, tub and other places where you can check and have plenty of light baskets for visibility .
Take a look at pulling the emergency pull rope in every room to really prepare your parent's living space for ease and safety. These units are widely used in the assisted care units and your parents are in trouble and she is pulling you an alarm or call to you or in emergency treatment
By working to make your parent's work area easy to use and safe, your mother or dad had to move to a retirement village or sanatorium and took care of the slow peace of mind that could become independent.
Do you like Grandpa?
A few of us think about the respect of our own self. But how do we feel about ourselves, our work, our relationships with our families and communities and our places in the world, and in life it is a human being for everyone It's the basic concept of psychology, and you won't lose the need for self-esteem when you become elderly.
If you think about yesterday, this is a cool sporting goods manufacturer who is not your old parent for this care. You were a carer and to some extent still as they were grown, are for your children. We cherished every need, including emotional and psychological needs. And good parents learn early on their children's self-esteem if they are essential to success in school or life.
Now that you are in a relationship with your mother and dad, don't "foster them" but worry about finance, physical health, diet and living arrangements
It is a huge change taking place in your aged mom and dad's life, and because those changes are a self-parent, your sense of self-worth is because we have not passed through it Take care of your child, do your work, and your independence, your ability to serve others in society
In senior years, all of it disappears in what looks like a moment. In the eyes of seniors, they go from being a hero to their children to being poor men and women they are being cared for like children. The feeling of being useful disappears and is replaced with the feeling of being unwanted and annoying. The "things" they have invested in are symbols of their success, including their homes, and their driving ability and work all fade away.
The small wonders of the elderly go through tremendous drops of self-respect. And when you go from thinking very much about yourself to not prefering who you are at all, it's a formula for disasters. Because it is a dangerous mental state that stays without respect for the self, the natural response is to the unhealthy thinking of alcohol or substance abuse or in the most extreme case,
As a carer, be aware of the huge effects of moving your aging parents' self-esteem and their out of their homes and losing their spouse and ability to drive them Those poor self-esteem symptoms are used by him Your parents are not taking care of themselves, those stories that he likes himself, he really
You can do a lot to build up your self-esteem backup with your aging parent. He helps to keep in touch with his family and old friends. Talk to him about the old days and encourage him to praise him about the day. And, above all, let him have a lot of time with grandchildren. A little angel prefers to a lover. I'm doing this myself to Granddad a little more to use magic.
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