Overview:
If we are unfortunate enough to be in the wrong place at the wrong time, we experience a personal tsunami.
It's tough. :
Unemployment, job research, career, support, psychological reframing,
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If we are unfortunate enough to be in the wrong place at the wrong time, we experience a personal tsunami.
But despite the frequency of such events-Asian high waves, Gulf hurricanes, loss of life in the Middle East, wildfires and landslides in California-we bleed for those who lost everything Although we give us a notebook and things we can do, our world is essentially unchanged.
Most of us are never subjected to the painful impact of major natural or man-made disasters. The magnitude of humanity insulates our millions from floods, bombs, and mayhem. We have a front page with various hits according to life changing events. Personal, quiet disasters-divorce, death, bankruptcy, or unemployment-permanently changes our lives, but all are overlooked and our best friends and families remain. We pick up the piece and try to get it together without support with the government or private succor.
It is a separation of so emotionally destructive personal losses. Even with the recommendation model, it is possible to recover unstable operation etc., and we are heading towards our balance.
Others are sympathetic and wish us well, but there is a deep bond between those who are working and those who can not find it. The longer we are out of work, the more we become alienated. Even those who love us begin to worry about something wrong with us. They begin to doubt that we are not as motivated as we say we are. Everyone has a lot of glib tips: "I've tried...?" Of course, we have-many times, always without success. We analyze everything we did and we tried all the tricks in the book, but still realize that we can not find the right one
Some of us get stuck in depression, anger, or helplessness worries. Our energy is drained and the smallest acts become more difficult. As frustration and financial pressures install, we surround it all with inequity and why we all have to work and
As with hurricanes and tsunamis and terrorism, victims are not responsible for the catastrophes they face. Life changing events do just that-change our lives, sometimes forever. Changes can be negative, fear-inducing, and desperately uncomfortable. But if we look closer, we will see it also have a positive face. If there is no change, the modern world will not exist. We live like our ancestors. And old times may sound attractive with its pristine simplicity, but such times are sick, inequality and we couldn't stomach today Live we accept change, it In spite of the confusion it brings, you need to look for the silver lining hidden in the storm clouds.
It was a wrong time that there was still work and nostalgic attachment but it has ended. The position of any single job taps into a small part of your possibility, even if you love what you were doing. Forced to make changes allows you to develop other ranges of your personal characteristics.
Analyze your interests and preferences and try to identify what you want to do that has not been utilized by your previous work. Can you think of a specific job title that may allow the industry or you to move in new directions? Think about new industry jobs that you might be able to do, and complete some preliminary research. You may not have a direct related experience, but there is a common theme that permeates all kinds of work: communication, part of your team, if you choose an area of genuine personal interest, you The enthusiasm clearly appears naturally, which is what all employers want.
The job search you're doing may be routine and mediocre without your realizing it. The experiences of failure and the frustration of never receiving a positive feedback, just with your own mind of your efforts, just go through your "movement" already
Taking a new direction can develop your work investigation tunnel. Head to the wall, revisit all techniques, move to a different environment rather than lead some that you have tried before, your own possibility It's a positive effect of forced change Is the time to be a new source of pleasure and satisfaction.
Unemployment Bruce: Are we pre-programmed for productivity?
Overview:
Feeling productive is likely to be an inherent human need. We feel good about ourselves when we are contributing to our own independence, to our families, to our community. Many of the great discoveries, inventions, and quests of history are individuals who were born to family wealth who had never had to lift a finger to ensure adequate self-help yet these individuals want to contribute to the world in a way Thinking, they left their home, worked by night, and died trying to be part of a company.
It's tough. :
Unemployment, job research, career, support, psychological reframing,
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A sweat away in our daily grind, we can absolutely do nothing when lying on the beach, a dream of fleeing to Hawaii or the South Pacific.
Some of us are lucky enough to take a vacation there and temporarily shut ourselves out of the world of responsibility and demands and troubles. We breathe easier, sleep more deeply, and eat more from the heart. It is really a paradise.
It is great because we have a life waiting to be played when we get off the plane. Our work is waiting for us and we will return to work with new energy and enthusiasm from our longstanding break.
It's like the first few days of unemployment, to get us up early with extra time in our hands, or to fight rush hour traffic But honeymoons are designed to last forever Not, it starts the hard work of building a marriage with that reality only when they are finished.
The obvious stressors of unemployment are widely recognized: financial stocks, frequent humiliation of fractures and job hunting, family upset, loss of confidence and self-esteem. While any of these can be lightly dismissed, we will focus on the area that is often overlooked for a moment. It causes internal confusion, pain, significantly increases layoff emotional depression, and worsens depression, anxiety, and often negative self-views to follow
Feeling productive is likely to be an inherent human need. We feel good about ourselves when we are contributing to our own independence, to our families, to our community. Many of the great discoveries, inventions, and quests of history are individuals who were born to family wealth who had never had to lift a finger to ensure adequate self-help yet these individuals want to contribute to the world in a way Thinking, they left their home, worked by night, and died trying to be part of a company.
Those who have not sat back in their glory and found any ventures to engage them through that day without personal values or commitments today we have their empty face on the social page Look, read the tabloids and hear about their drug problems and any effort to find excitement and meaning
Ours-Most of us-The only people who have to work, the dream of having enough money to have the choice. Some of us really want to drift around the world without goals or ambitions. We just want to do something more meaningful to us than the career we just dropped.
It may be that career, it's there, but when bowling and humdrum are suddenly taken away, how long we are ours so long we have our beliefs of our own value we It is mutually dependent with the productivity of We feel an important part of our marital partnership, Someone our children respect and obey, the right to express an opinion or vote on principles We are workers It is a genuine member of the class, and it is clear to those who do not contribute, such as welfare classes, criminals, idol rich, various parasites scattered around the border of society, etc.
As we lose work, the lines begin to blur. Our sense of personal importance begins to crack slowly. We see our reflections begin to change in the eyes of our friends and families. While we find other jobs and focus on jumping through the numerous needed by any work search campaign, we are also around us
As a professional counselor, I repeatedly heard concerns from my spouse and family: "She has completely changed since this happened... He is not a man I knew... I don't know anymore .. He does not tell me about what bothers him .. I want to get my husband back I don't care if he is working .. "
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