Sometimes, when all our doubts, anxieties and anxieties envelop ourselves, we always come up with the idea that "I was someone else." "In many cases, we believe that someone, or rather, most people are better than us.-In fact, most people are actually more scared than we are.
You will find a completely eye-catching girl sitting alone at a party while casually drinking a glass of Asti Spumanti. You think to yourself, "She is very calm and confident." But, if you can read through her transparent mind, you can see a bunch of thought clouds, you just she Surprised that you are thinking ... Why a man has not found me attractive? ... I do not like my ankles, they look too thin ... I wish I was as intelligent as my best friend. "
We look at young business entrepreneurs and say "Wooh ... what can he say to others?" He stares at himself in the mirror and scolds himself, "I am mine Big eyes ... wondering why my friends don't talk to me ... I'm still mom & dad "
Aren't you funny? We look at others, they look at us, and while thinking of the same things, we hate them perfection so that we can exchange places with them Are not safe for others who are not our own. We suffer from low self-esteem, a lack of confidence, and lose hope for self improvement as we are surrounded by a quiet rash.
Sometimes, being aware that you have an irritating habit like biting off your finger nails, having a dirty mouth-is the last thing to know of all people.
I have friends who never get tired of talking. And, in most conversations, she is the only person who appears to be interested in what she has to say. So, all of our other friends tend to avoid the circle whenever she is around and notice that she has become socially disabled
The key to self-improvement is listening and talking to a trusted friend. Find someone that you would like to discuss and also find comfort in the open with the most gentle topics. "Do you think I have bad manners?", "Are I always sounding so rational?", "Are I talking too loud?", "Are my breath smelling? Together When I was, did I ever bore you? ”Thus, others clearly know that you are interested in the process of self-improvement. "Let's not exaggerate! It is just the way I do!" Develop your mind and heart also. And instead, you may also want to help your friend with a constructive criticism that will help her improve her self.
Whitney Houston ("The love of learning for Whitney Houston's songs also loves oneself most." To be true enough. To love others, you must love yourself too. What you don't have Can not give.
Allow others to see that you are the display and product of self improvement before they tell others how to improve themselves Self improvement can make us better people, I They then urge people, and the rest follow.
I stop thinking about myself as a second-class person. Forget thinking repeatedly: "If only I am richer ... If only I am thinner". Accepting your true self is the first step to self-improvement. We need to stop comparing ourselves with others only to find at the end that we have 10 more reasons to envy them
We all have our fears. No one is perfect. Removed the review But life does not have to be perfect for people to be happy about themselves. Self-improvement and loving yourself is not a matter of shouting to the whole world that you are perfect and you are the best. It is a virtue of acceptance and satisfaction. We then begin to feel happy and happy when we begin to improve ourselves.
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