Some parents are more concerned about settings and strict rules are widely used as a means of furthering. But this is not simply the case. They complain and may get angry when you become an enforcer, but they deeply understand that you care. I love these parameter settings, conduct child feeling and secure safety.
Developing and deploying rules is by no means easy. Parents may tend to avoid setting rules because they are afraid of conflict and unpleasantness. However, unpleasant things are not always reflected in the relationship with your child. We sometimes tend to want to be our children's friends, and when we are laying a law that is not just possible. Our main role is to protect, nurture and provide for our children.
When children break the rules, parents often overreact with harsh, unbalanced and unenforceable punishments and undermine the effectiveness of setting rules. Instead, when you first talk to your child about the new rule, discuss the consequences of breaking that rule. The result has to go hand-in-hand with the limits as you know what your child's cost is to break the rules. The punishment you set should be reasonable and related to the breach. For example, if you catch the smoking of your son and his friend, you may "ground" him by restricting his social activities for two weeks
The punishment should only include the punishment you discussed before the rule was broken. Also, never issue an empty threat. I understand that you are angry when the rules of the house are broken, sharing anger, disappointment, sadness gives a strong motivation to your child We all are we upset It is not something we mean because we are more inclined than saying we don't mean
Make a clear ground rule for your child. It is essential that you be consistent and follow through to the disciplinary actions defined after each violation, and that your child understands the reason.
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