Do you have short-term expectations and long-term projects? If you do, that is a sure path to frustration and failure.
Lifestyle goals such as exercise and healthy eating need to be a habit to be effective. Career change also takes time and planning, and it does not happen overnight.
Your world has changed. There are voicemails, emails, pagers, and fax machines that have made the period of "unwanted and almost outdated" waiting. The information is readily available, and we expect relationships and achievement of goals to do the same. If you read this, do you know that it is impossible to expect it? We were led by the advertisers to believe that we deserved immediate pleasure and that it was easily and effortlessly available!
When you want to train a puppy, you know that it takes a consistent reinforcement with time. You are ready because you want your puppy to act in a way that is acceptable. Why are you patient with your puppy and having a hard time with yourself?
When you plant seeds in the garden, you tilt them, pour water, desire sunlight, and grow them. Are you raising yourself?
The best way to move gently and effectively towards your goal is to take a reasonable approach and break the goal of your long-term project into a secondary goal. Somehow break it into short term chunks. Prepare the soil today and plant the seeds tomorrow.
As you know that you are contributing to the completion of your goals, each action and each step you take is satisfactory. You can not rush your garden and Mother Nature, the same applies to your goals.
This process is much more than a flower, as it is the "planting place", when choosing the way to plant it, and the gardener how to grow it. Similarly, brought about their own growth within themselves. Your goal is achieved over time, tight and not frazzled.
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