Sometimes, when all our doubts, fears and anxiety wrap ourselves, we always think that I would like to be someone else. "Often we are someone, or rather, , I believe that most people are better than us. - In fact, most people are scared more than us.
You casually drink on the glass of Asti Spumanti and find yourself totally eye-catching girl sitting by yourself at the party. I'd like to make myself able to experience a calm match. "But if you can read her clear mind, you see a bunch of thought clouds, you think she thinks Maybe you might be surprised that "Why ... Why do not you find me attractive? ... I do not like my ankle, they look too skinny ... I hope I was intelligent like my best friend.
We saw a young business entrepreneur, "Wow ... what can you ask for elsewhere?" He stared at himself in the mirror, tweeting himself, "I hate my big eyes ... I wonder why my friend will not talk to me ... I am mother and father "
Is not it strange? We look at other people and hope to exchange places with them while they see us and think about the same thing. We are not ourselves safe for our unsafe other people. We suffer from low self-esteem, lack of confidence, we lose the hope of self improvement as we are surrounded by quiet despair.
Sometimes you notice that you have an irritating habit like chewing your fingernails, you have a dirty mouth and you - you know, of all people
I have a friend never get tired of talking to me. And in most conversations, she is the only one that seems to be interested in what she has to say. So, all of our other friends tend to avoid the circle whenever she is around, and how badly she is socially disabled
One key to self improvement is listening to a trusted friend and speaking. Find someone who finds the most gentle topic you want to discuss and consolation of development. "Do you ask questions to think that I am bad courtesy?", "Do I always sound like logic?", "Am I talking too loudly?", "I "Do you smell the breath of?", "Did I birth you when I was with you?". In this way, others know that they are obviously interested in the process of self improvement. Please lend your ears to her for comments and criticisms, "Do not exaggerate! Please open your heart and mind that is just the way! And instead, you may want to help your friend in constructive criticism, which also helps her to improve her self.
One Whitney Houston (Whitney Houston's song "I love you the most for learning as well." It is sufficiently true that in order to love others, you also need to love yourself. Can not give.
Before telling some way about how to improve yourself to others, let's see that you are self expressive expression and product self improvement will make us better people, I They inspire others and then obey the rest of the world.
I stop thinking about myself as a second-rate human being. Please forget the iterative idea that "If only I was richer ... only I was thinner". Accepting your true self is the first step towards self improvement. We need to stop comparing ourselves with others only to find at the edge that we have ten more reasons to envy them
We all have our danger. Nobody is perfect. I think that it is better to do, better, better body parts etc. But life does not have to be perfect for people to be happy about themselves. Self improvement and loving oneself is not a matter of shouting to the whole world that you are perfect and that you are the best. It is a virtue of acceptance and satisfaction. When we begin to improve ourselves we will then satisfy and start to feel happy.
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