It is never easy to discipline your child. Since there was no doubt that from experience, there is no doubt that it will always fail to follow the consistent company and bring about the disciplinary results specified. However, if there are two parents involved, it is important that they be consistent both on the same page and apply discipline regardless of marital status.
Parents must agree on how to train their children. It is in the same situation as dealing with what must be consistent with the parents of a reliable child. In situations where parents are divided or divorced, opposing each other to discipline can create complex situations for children. They should keep in mind the best interests of their children, sit with them, work together to align the rules and expectations, and the consequences of violating those rules, both with their intended discipline. You must agree and be consistently applied in a solid and fair manner at each home.
Furthermore, if there is a disagreement about discipline or other parenting issues, it is best to resolve when there are no children. If a child senses a mismatch, it may try to process the condition to advantage.
When teaching good behavior, parents should "practice what they preach". By the sense of values we will further instruct verbally by the adult set by the values so that we can practice the habit. It is hypocritical and ineffective to scream and insult your children. It is important how you become, please use the answer of which custody. When the child is physically aggressive, it is better to tell the child quietly, or to use the "timeout" quietly.
And it is a downhill road which may not work now. Considering the situation is different approach, time and maturity will change or abolish the rules of the child. Sometimes the support in the common sense is decided, but relax the table manners that need to change the rules at bedtime. Some of the rules are the same, others are changed or abolished, and new rules are introduced. However, regardless of the circumstances, parents should always present a uniform front and should not cooperate with each other to provide effective discipline for the child
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